Stop Criticizing other people
When we criticize other people we are telling ourselves that people criticize us. When we point out people’s flaws become hyper aware of our own flaws. When we start looking for people’s strengths we notice them in ourselves.
Constructive criticism is great
When someone gives us constructive criticism we can use it to improve. Constructive criticism is when they tell you something with the intent to help you see it, not the intent to hurt you. Take a breath before you react and ask yourself what their intent is.
Ask yourself What you think
We put too much value on what other people think of us an not enough on what we think about ourselves.
Is the World Going to End
It can be easy to get wrapped up in small things and make them see, more important than they really are. Is the world going to end because someone doesn’t like the way you dress.
Do You want to Be Them
Don’t take advice or criticism from anyone you’re not willing to trade places with.